Being Right ‘N’ Wrong All at once

You could be right & have all the right reasons to be angry, offended and not happy with how someone said or did something to you; But you could be wrong by how you responded or reacted to whatever they said or did to offend you.

You may have been hurt, offended, misunderstood and much more; But how you respond to the bad can make you worse or better.  You know you can be very right yet very wrong all at once.  Be careful how you speak it or put it forward when you have been hurt.

The good book says do not speak when you are angry.  It also says turn the other cheek.  I believe this is a response not to good but bad outcomes.  Responding in the same way you have been dished doesn’t help any situation.  We have been told by experts to count to ten, take a deep breathe, walk away before you respond to someone when you are angry or offended.  Basically before you respond to any negativity that has been served to you, ensure you are not as negative as what you were served, because that will be a recipe for a disaster.

Before you respond to any negativity that has been served to you, ensure you are not as negative as what was dished out, that’s a recipe for a disaster

Jms 1: 19-20 So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
Eph 4: 26-27 Be angry, and do not sin do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.
Pro 15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath ,But a harsh word stirs up anger.
Pro 19:11 The discretion of a man makes him slow to anger,  And his glory is to overlook a transgression
Pro 16:32 He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, And he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city

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